Forgiveness Lavender & Balsam: Forgiveness begins with you. The lavender leaf, balsam has a sweet, smokey, floral fragrance with undertones of mint. It gives a faint, gentle and warm scent. Forgive yourself to let go of the pain. No one deserves pain and suffering. Enjoy the positive energy of blessings in your life. It can also be used for meditation, afternoon naps or sleepless nights.